And here we go again…

Well good morning, I see the assigns have failed lol

Yep, that’s right, another weekend,  another blog. This week hasn’t been to bad and was actually a short week for me as I had booked off Friday for an optometrist appointment. Don’t need glasses (officially) this year, bur the Doctor said if I needed and/or wanted to get that little bit of extra focus I should buy some +1.00 or +1.25 cheap glasses. I am not sure if I will or not, it all depends on how good they make me look.

I did get to spend time with my oldest as well and that was nice. The sweetest part was when we were waiting for my youngest to get home from school and they gave each other a big hug and said they missed and loved each other (a definite Hallmark moment).

In case you were wondering; yes I do still have the shingles, but it is slowly going away as in not as painful (but still hurts like the dickens). I did realize one thing, when I am laying on the floor (in pain) the carpet smells (like feet and dog and food)…guess that means we (as in I)should vacuum this weekend.

My fiance got a nice bonus from work (must be nice to be in the private sector) and think she has a urge to spend it…of course I have a few suggestions but nothing that I really need (no PS4 or Xbox One) it’s mostly little things for the house.

Note to self, I should make little notes during the week abd things I want to blog about as I sit her now my mind draws a blank.

Oh I get to see Deadpool today (hopefully) yay lol

That’s it, that’s all for now.

Ciao xo





Another weekend

So yeah, I missed posting last weekend. I thought about it and I guess I didn’t really have a whole lot to say or maybe was just too busy. Did any one miss reading my posts?

If any of you read the news about Ottawa this week, we got a whole crap load of snow on Tuesday night, something like 51 cm and the schools were closed both Wednesday and Thursday. I took Thursday off as a snow day as it may be the last one I am able to take. I used the reason my daughter was too immature to stay home alone. Its not a total lie, as I don’t think she is but I didn’t have her, and did spend most of the day shoveling anyways.

My shingle?  Well I still have them, and I do think they are slowly getting better. It only hurts if I rub the back of my neck now and my collar bone is itchy at times too. Sometimes the pain attacks are more spread out on my left neck and shoulder. At least the pain only lasts for 2-3 minutes, thankfully.

Well have my youngest here this weekend again and the plan today is going to the movies. She and my fiance are going to see Zoolander 2, and I am going to see Deadpool…so everyone is happy. She wanted to see Deadpool with me but it is rated R so I told her they wouldn’t let her in to the theater, at least I won’t have to spend half the film answering questions and miss parts of the movie.

So thought I had a way to catch up on some debts. Some investment company contacted me with money I had earned back in 2006 and when I went to try and claim it they said I had to be 55 years old or in financial hardship. well I’m not 55 yet and as for hardship it would be great to clear off a debt that I have been forever paying. So I sent another letter and made it attention to a supervisor so (crossing finger) I hope I get some money as it would really help.

Oh I almost forgot last weekend we (my fiance, my BF and 4) others went to an escape room ( . It was a blast and we had fun. Unfortunately, we ran out of time on the last lock so ended up loosing. we are making plans to go to another one…at the end of August at the Diefenbunker (google it). So hopefully we will be able to escape that one 🙂

Well I guess I am off to enjoy the weekend now (as I hear footsteps). Have a great one…and who knows I may be back later.


**so I didn’t get to see Deadpool this weekend but my fiancé said she’ll go with me next weekend. Zoolander 2 wasn’t that bad, and was a kinda stupid funny. 




Happy Birthday to me…


Well it’s here. One of my least favorite days on the calendar. I don’t know why I dislike it so much maybe cause I always have so much expectations of it’s going to be a fun day; but rarely lives up to my expectations. To be honest I really don’t have any expectations anymore. I given up having them. But deep in the back of my mind I still expect something great to happen. I know, I know I should just go with the flow and try and enjoy the day as much as possible, but of course that’s easier said than done.

I know we’re going out for lunch today at a place I picked and a time I chose. My youngest of course wants to make other plans so she can see her friend for a few hours, and not really do what I wanna do (of course). Maybe I am selfish?Maybe I am an asshole? I don’t decided that. it’s what others will perceive of me today or tomorrow, and I am starting to think I don’t really care. It’s not like I have many friends I talk to every day – more like few friends that I almost never talk to or see. If I enjoyed my own company it would be great, but I don’t even enjoy that.

I guess it’s time for more coffee and watch Facebook as the birthday wishes trickle in from people I hardly know and rarely talk to.

Happy birthday to me…


So after my initial disappointment of my oldest not being able to come to my birthday dinner, the whole dinner fell apart and was cancelled. This is because of my evil nemesis…my sister. Shes a year and a half younger (but looks older) and we’re not close at all. We see each other maybe 2-3 times a year (1-2 times more than I’d like) and hardly say anything to each other when we do.

Anyways turns out she is getting married tonight (yeah I found this out Thursday night) which is why may parents cancelled my b-day dinner (yeah I know I sound I am being selfish, but my sister is really an attention seeker – I have 46 years of knowing her to know and not going to write her history here cause I have other things I would rather do). It’s her second marriage as she got divorced from the first one. I thought she would never marry again. I am actually not big on my birthday anyways so almost glad it’s cancelled/postponed, just not glad cause she’s the one who caused it. FYI she wasn’t invited to my dinner anyways – or I didn’t want to invite her LOL.

Anyways the guy she is marrying has cancer and has only been given 6 months to live. I don’t think he’s rich and don’t know anything about their relationship. I do know the guy as her grew up a mile away from my childhood residence (didn’t think much of him then though, but hey that’s 40 some years ago, and people change). Not to sound mean, but I hope I don’t have to go to the funeral – I hate funerals more than I hate my birthday parties.

I may run into some people I used to know growing up and there is one friend who won’t be going cause I heard she was barred from going (sorry don’t know the details…if I did I would do it too and get myself barred).

Of course I do wish them health and happiness…a little more emphasis on health since well, 6 months isn’t very long.

I think that’s whats been on my mind the past couple days and its only one night and a smallish ceremony.

ciao for now xo


Mid-week Rant

Wow now that I actually have a moment to write I have noting to write. Sure I should write notes when the idea hits me, but its kinda hard to write legibly at 3 am in the morning especially if I am having a shingles moment and would rather be lying peacefully and silently in bet, rather than rolling on the carpet in pain. … It is slowly (very slowly) getting better.
Oh did I mention how much I dislike February. I swear it feels like I am pressured into having a birthday and sometimes I think I’d rather not have one. If I didn’t have my youngest I don’t think I would. Just me and a pizza ❤ lol

My oldest isn’t able to come cause she’s working nights this weekend and said she can’t afford it either (we made a rain check to have supper with them and heir puppy too). Also, if I had my birthday on my birthday I would be competing with the Super Bowl crowds (sorry not a football fan) so switched it to deal with the regular crowds on Saturday. 

Mid week rant done!

Peace-out xo